While being a local might give a person an edge on where to go or what places to see, some people are completely new to the area and use online dating apps like Tinder and OkCupid to connect. when I realized what a stupid thing it was. The DJ/podcaster/comedy writer runs the Instagram account “notes2myselfie,” where she writes about dating in New York. it’s more curated than, say, OkCupid, which…